'Meeting Mina...'
Nine years ago today, my life changed forever. On 11 March 2005 our then family – me, hubby
and two cats – were joined by Mina, greyhound. Fast forward nine years and, wow, what a
difference a dog makes.
It seems particularly apt to write about it now, nine years
later, on what would have been Mina’s 9th ‘Gotcha Day’ and reflect
on how ‘meeting Mina’ has changed my life.
On 1 February 2014, Mina – my heart dog - passed away. Although her passing was planned and peaceful
- she died at home, in my arms - it doesn’t make her death any easier to bear.
Mina, heart hound & Scruffts 'Golden Oldie' 2012 winner |
I’ve spent the last month in an emotional fog, alternating
between floods of tears and numbness.
Mina was my first dog; she is the reason for this blog, the change in my
career and for helping me find my true vocation. It’s fair to say her effect on my life has
been profound and not something I could have ever envisaged just nine years
ago.
Everything is still very raw and, to be honest, it’s only now that I can start to put down in words what she meant to me and I want to share some of her story on my blog.
LBD – (life before ‘dog’)
If you’d asked me 10 years ago whether I’d have a dog, I
would have laughed in your face. ‘A dog?
Me? With my two cats? I don’t think so!’
However, fate has a funny way of entering your life and making you eat
your words. And fate intervened in my life in March 2005.
It was the beginning of March, 2005, and me and hubby were off to Barcelona to celebrate my birthday. I dropped the cats (Chivers & Tazzie – sadly now deceased through old age) off at the cattery and while I was waiting in reception, saw a sign which said: “Female greyhound looking for loving home. Good with cats and children”…
Something about the sign got me thinking. A few months earlier we’d been talking about dogs and somehow discovered that we both liked the look of greyhounds. Hubby had grown up with a dog (and a cat), whilst I’d grown up with rabbits and goldfish. I’d also been bitten in the stomach by a German Shepherd Dog in the 70s, but thanks to the Teflon like fibres of 70s synthetics, I was saved from serious injury. All in all, it was fair to say that I wasn’t a huge dog fan… but then again, there was just ‘something’ about that notice and was it fate that we’d been speaking about a greyhound and that a cat-friendly one was looking for a home?
We decided that we’d contact Mina’s owner and see where it took us when we got back to the UK. I still remember that first meeting at her previous owner’s house… A beautiful brindle greyhound, lying on her red duvet, looking at us with soulful eyes: it’s fair to say we were smitten and subject to introducing her to my cats – Chivers & Tazzie – our hearts had already been won over.
The initial meeting between Mina and the cats went well and that was it – both Mina’s and my fate were sealed. I was to become a dog owner.
'Misdemeanours' & Behaviour Problems
Mina didn’t come without a few issues though and it was
these that first ignited that spark of interest in dog behaviour and
training. Mina displayed an array of
behaviour problems, she clearly suffered from separation distress, resulting in
door frames being eaten/clawed at, not eating food until we came back home and
as for her reaction to other dogs…
'Billy Goat Gruff' |
Early games with Mina in 2005 |
Completing my Canine Conversion
In 2007 we moved to Lincolnshire and it was by chance that I discovered a local greyhound charity – Lincolnshire Greyhound Trust. In early 2008, we went on a greyhound walk and found that Mina could get along with other dogs (mostly if they were greyhound shaped and weren’t rude in their greetings)!
That’s when Stevie entered our lives and my greyhound obsession grew. I still remember introducing Mina to potential greyhound house-mates (oh, how I would do things differently now). There was Figo, who was sooo excitable that he rushed right over to say hello, only to be resolutely told off by Mina, and then there was Stevie. Stevie was a handsome blue and white boy, cat trainable, amazing recall, a tad greedy, but more importantly Mina-compatible. Our greyhound gang now had 2 greyhounds.
The 'Canine Catastrophe'
Modelling the 'cone of shame' due to one of her catastrophes |
Mina & her lampshade impression |
Over her lifetime, Mina had many medical issues that required veterinary attention. Some were injuries due to living life to the full and others were more serious, due to genetics/illness.
A conservative estimate of Mina’s total vet bills puts them around £20,000! She had two major eye operations, a toe amputation, torn muscles, split webbing, teeth extractions, regular eye check-ups with the specialist vet, leg and toe injuries; she also managed to cut her leg to expose the Achilles tendon and also cut her tail (half-way up), exposing another tendon. But do you know what? These conditions didn’t slow her down or dampen her joie de vivre.
And Jasper makes three
Whilst Mina was having one of her first ‘canine catastrophe’ moments, I fell in love with another greyhound. I was smitten. Jasper (or Magic, as he was known then) was a beautiful black hound, calm and serene – I likened him to being ‘my poochie prozac’. And, once Mina had recovered, he was introduced to her and completed our gang of three greyhounds.
And Jasper makes three |
Degrees, dog training and discovery
It’s fair to say that thanks to Mina, I discovered my true vocation. I never knew it, but I loved working with dogs and humans and as my appetite had been whet, I wanted to learn more about what made my hounds tick and how could I help them to adjust to life as a companion animal.
Since meeting Mina, I’ve enrolled at university and
completed my foundation degree in canine behaviour and training. I’m also continuing my university studies so
that I can gain a BSc.
I became a Puppy School tutor – running puppy school classes under the UK Puppy School network. I firmly believe that many behaviour problems are preventable by good puppy classes and often wonder what Mina would have been like if she’d had that start in life.
I also established Happy Hounds Dog Training, and run dog training classes plus specialist greyhound only classes, with an emphasis on helping our dogs adjust to life as a companion animal in the 21st century. I’m also proud to say that I have worked with the Retired Greyhound Trust and have revised and rewritten their training leaflets
Receiving my FdSc |
I became a Puppy School tutor – running puppy school classes under the UK Puppy School network. I firmly believe that many behaviour problems are preventable by good puppy classes and often wonder what Mina would have been like if she’d had that start in life.
I also established Happy Hounds Dog Training, and run dog training classes plus specialist greyhound only classes, with an emphasis on helping our dogs adjust to life as a companion animal in the 21st century. I’m also proud to say that I have worked with the Retired Greyhound Trust and have revised and rewritten their training leaflets
Mina - the calendar girl |
One of Mina's biggest loves was scentwork, particularly Talking Dogs Scentwork. She took to it like a natural, sniffing out cheese wherever it was hidden. It's really thanks to scentwork that Mina and I became the team we were, as scentwork teaches you to 'trust in dog.' It was a great privilege and especially fitting that Mina was chosen as the calendar girl for February 2014.
Mina’s legacy
I still can’t believe that she’s gone. She has been my constant companion through the ups and downs of the last nine years. Don’t get me wrong, I love both Stevie and Jasper, but the bond I had with Mina can never be replaced. Grief is complex, and those who think ‘it’s just a dog’ have obviously never experienced the joy, love and companionship that living with a dog can bring to life.
There’s not a day that goes past, without stirring a memory of Mina. I’m not sure whether time is a healer, but I hope, in time, that the pain of her loss lessens and that I can look at photos and videos without crying. I never expected to become a canine convert and could never have predicted the effect that one greyhound would have on my life.
Thanks to Mina I have met some truly amazing people, who I’m
proud to call friends; I’ve learned that patience and empathy go a long way
(both with humans and hounds); I’ve launched a new career which, I hope, will
see me through to my twilight years. She
was the inspiration behind Happy Hounds Dog Training and all the humans and
hounds I continue to work with will be her lasting legacy.
Mina, 2002 - 1 February 2014